First of all, who in the world would want to take their new girlfriend here? Sure, there’s the famous mall but otherwise, it’s nothing but history and not a lot of history that you haven’t ever heard about at that. Most people have learned all they want to know about Washington in their textbook at school, and it doesn’t exactly sound like a great way to spend a romantic weekend. Another thing to realize about this particular location is that it’s hotter than blue blazes in the summer, especially because it’s such a large city. The traffic is predictably awful, and you’re going to get a few nasty looks for being tourists in the area, anyway. Pass on this one, and take your girl somewhere that she can actually enjoy some history that she isn’t 3000% aware of already.
This is the section of the Great Wall that is closest to Beijing, in case you weren’t entirely aware, and it’s a total tourist trap. If you’re going to go around and tour China, don’t bother with this particular section, because it’s just going to be a bunch of pictures of you on some rocks with a million other tourists in the background. There are a million other cities in China that are a dozen times more interesting, and is that picture of you on the Great Wall really that important?
Better things to do in China: visit Beijing, but actually immerse yourself in the culture of food and religion there. You’ll really be able to visit some interesting religious temples while in China and sample a lot of different foods (be safe about that, though!). China is home to a lot of gorgeous women, too, and if your current fling is up for it, maybe the two of you can add a third member to your party for the stay.
Okay, so everyone hears about how Iceland is gorgeous, pristine, and fascinating to go and visit at least once in this lifetime. Pass on it. Why? Because it’s expensive! Dating sites for internet flings will never recommend Iceland for you as a vacation spot because the fact of the matter is, there just isn’t much going on there other than picturesque lakes, if spending $10 for a single beer is something you’re interested in while enjoying Iceland’s nightlife, then by all means…knock yourself out and take your newest fling there. Otherwise, pass on Iceland and find somewhere else that’s just like it for a lot, lot less.
Everyone knows this is an idyllic beach. That doesn’t mean it’s that much better than any other beach, and the fact of the matter is, you can stay in the United States and find something just as gorgeous and fun to go to without being the absolute party capital of the world. Do you really want to deal with that traffic? No matter what that great dating site for internet flings said about this place, your newest girlfriend will not hate you if you don’t take her to Ibiza. In fact, she might enjoy a beach that isn’t quite as jam packed during the day, or as difficult to deal with at night. It’s a complete chaos and madness and not in a good way. It’s basically a giant tourist trap nowadays because everyone knows it as the party capital, and so that’s what they’re going to do: get drunk, scream a lot, and make your trip an absolute nightmare!
“May be not an ideal fling date vacation option”
Shocking to some that it might be overrated, but honestly, if you’ve been once, you never need to go again. And even if you’ve never been, it’s not really that big of a deal. Sure, there’s Sea World, and nearby, Walt Disney World. Great! The thing is, it’s incredibly expensive. You’ll be dropping a couple hundred just on the tickets to get in with your girlfriend. You also have to factor in hotel stays, food, and travel, and you can easily make a trip cost thousands of dollars.
When choosing a fun vacation with a lot of activities, don’t listen to all the internet fling dating sites that talk about Orlando being a destination. There a ton of smaller scale operations that will please you and your new lady just as well without all the tourism, the traps, the traffic, and the heat.
Another tourist trap to the extreme, Honolulu can be a fun vacation, but it doesn’t mean that it isn’t incredibly overhyped. On top of that, it’s incredibly expensive, and you’ll be wincing at just the airfare to get there, more than likely! More than anything, Honolulu is a giant concrete jungle nowadays, and that’s due to massive over development for the tourist industry. You really aren’t going to be able to have that idyllic beach vacation that you are looking for with all of the tourists milling about and being up in your grill. There are so many Hawaiian beaches that aren’t as populated that you can enjoy a dozen times more.
Another thing about Honolulu: homelessness is a huge problem there, and just as if you were wandering around Manhattan while touring the city, you will have to deal with them begging you for money. If you aren’t interested in walking around, you have to rent a car, but parking is incredibly difficult in Honolulu, and if you want to secure a spot, it can be exorbitantly expensive. Check out any of the other Hawaiian Islands and cities, but not this one.
With all of the options out there for your new vacation, you should obviously avoid these cliché, overhyped locations that are honestly just not worth your money. For best results, talk to your girlfriend about what she personally would like to be able to do during her vacation time with you. Compare interests, and come up with a place that you would both like to go in order to make the best of your vacation time. Without a doubt, you don’t need to spend the money on these overhyped tourist traps to have a good time and have a fun time with your newest fling. They just aren’t worth your time!
You’ve finally done it. After thinking for months, maybe even years, about how you want to try being dominated, you’ve made contact with a dominatrix. She may be a legit pro you found on a sex site, or she may be someone you found on a dating site who’s looking for a boyfriend she can also boss—and maybe smack, if you’re into that—around when she feels like it. Either way, congratulations! This isn’t something you do without commitment, and you clearly have it.
Except now you’re not entirely sure what you’ve opened yourself up to, or maybe you’re having second thoughts. Not sure what’s going to happen? Don’t know if you can go through with it? What it entails is going vary based on how legit she is and if you found her on a sex or dating site, but there are some basics either way.
The first things to know about most pro dominatrix are that they’re in it for money, not to get their rocks off, and they’re not prostitutes. We know there are some who at least let their clients go down on them, but sex is by no means part of the package. Talk to her before you’ve paid for anything so you won’t feel cheated later.
There are a variety of services that a dominatrix offer, but they all boil down to dominating their clients. A client might specifically want to be scolded like he’s a school kid who missed his curfew, and she can provide that. Another client might want to be whipped with a cat o’ nine tails and verbally humiliated. Another might want to be held responsible for getting things done at work and home, and having someone he has to “report” to or face punishment for not doing everything he needed keeps him on track. The dominatrix’s approach is going to vary in all those cases. She’s not a therapist, though; she’s not going to try to find out what the real causes of your issues are. She’s going to treat you like an adult who knows what he wants and give you that service.
Let’s say you’re one of those clients who want to be scolded. The session is probably going to go something like this:
You arrive at her workplace, which is usually her home, frequently her basement, and only sometimes remotely like a dungeon (besides being her basement). You’ll introduce yourselves, she’ll tell you what to call her, and she might pick something to call you (but probably not). She’ll give you her rates, and you go for half an hour of sheer concentrated scolding. You might pay at this point. Then she’ll talk to you about exactly what you want to be scolded about; she’s going to probably want to make this fantasy pretty real for you, since it keeps you coming back. Once she has some understanding, which character types are off-limits (and if you actually want to be treated like a child), she’ll start making good on what her ad said she’d do, which is often something like making you cry like a baby. If you do cry, she’s not going to make a thing out of it, unless you like humiliation with your scolding. Mostly, she’s going to do exactly what you talked about, but usually in a way you wouldn’t have thought of. When your time’s up, you pay (if you didn’t at the beginning), she gives you a couple of tissues, and you’re out of there.
Unlike a dominatrix you meet on a dating site, the legit pros don’t go for much in the way of aftercare; mostly, the ones you find on sex sites make sure you’re safe to get yourself home, any injuries you have won’t get infected or kill you before you get home, and that’s about it. If aftercare is a concern, go for someone who’s doing it for the fun of it. If you want to keep it all away from your actual personal life, though, you can’t go wrong with a pro. Now, it is important that you find a pro from a legit sex site. Read adult space review here: http://flingtacticsguide.com/site-reviews/adultspace/ and learn more about adult space scam. You must not fall for scams and expose your darkest desires to a scam artisit.
There are a couple of different types of non-professional dominatrix. With the ladies you find on legit dating sites, they’re either into dominating only during sex and other specific times, or they’re into dominating all the time. You really should know which kind she is before setting up a date.
Either way, when you’re on that date, you’re going to talk before anything gets started. If she starts trying to dominate you before you’ve even negotiated—hey, you’ve heard of “50 Shades of Grey “, right? Yeah, you found the female version of the lead guy. In other words, a jerk! No matter what kind of dominatrix she is, she should want to do some negotiating and clear communicating before anything gets started.
Yeah, we know it sounded girly, too, but this woman could be swinging a whip at your back. Communication is a good thing.
On that first date, you can tell her all about how new you are to submitting and how she’s going to be your first dominatrix. She might love the idea, or she might hate it. If she hates it, don’t push it. It’s a first date. If she doesn’t call you back because of it, you’re not really out any time, and you might have even gotten a free meal out of it. If she loves the idea, on the other hand, then you might end up finding yourself on your knees before you even part ways for the night.
Being dominated by a kinkster doesn’t necessarily mean sex is involved while you’re being dominated. That might come later or not at all on a given day. The two can be closely tied together, or they can be separate. It mostly depends on her, but your input matters, too. If you’re not getting off on it, then you probably don’t want to add sex to the mix. On the other hand, if you love it then orgasms could make it even better. On the third hand, tying orgasms and being dominated together could make for some awkward times later: either you get turned on when your boss is yelling at you or you almost need to be dominated in order for sex to work for you. Only you know which is going to be best for you, and only you know if it’s worth risking changing how your sex life currently works. This is important. Think it through. You can’t undo sex-life changes.
Getting involved with a dominatrix is pretty big, whether she’s a pro or just kinky. It’s a huge change to your sex life, even if it doesn’t involve actual sexual acts; it’s going to influence your fantasies and thoughts for a long time, and it could backfire pretty easily and put you off all kinds of intimacy, both groin-related and otherwise. Either way, make sure you talk things through with her, and don’t be afraid to tell her what your limits are. It’s kind of the point of being with someone who knows what they’re doing, you know?
With the ever increasing popularity of smart phones and applications for mobile devices, it is practically much easier today than ever before to keep tabs on your loved ones, especially your children and if need be your spouse. These applications often utilize Global Positioning Systems (GPS) technology to keep track of locations, all for the purpose of giving you some peace of mind. Here are some of these available mobile phone applications.
Life 360 (available for Android, iPhone, Windows Phone and Blackberry for free)
This is a widely popular application that offers, of course, a GPS monitoring that can pinpoint the exact location of a family member (a child or spouse for instance), the ability to “check in” at a location to alert family members and inform them that you are safe and sound, and a group-messaging program for instantaneous relay of information to multiple family members. Its map also marks the location of important places like police stations and hospitals.
SMS Tracker (available for Android for free)
This program runs in the background and allows a third person, say a concerned or worried parent, to see all incoming and outgoing calls, text messages, and even photos being shared. This way they can monitor any unpleasant, unwanted and even malicious exchanges that may occur.
Securafone (available for Android and iPhone for free)
This is a GPS-powered tracking program that features a panic button that children could press immediately to dial a number preset by a parent. Parents can also set up virtual fences around their children. An example would be the boundaries of the school, at which they can be alerted when the children go beyond this area.
Another feature is the “distracted driver alert system” which is exclusive for Android. This disables the short message sending ability (text) as well as the use of social media on the phone when the user is traveling faster than 5 miles per hour.
Footprints (available for iPhone at USD 3.99 per year)
Just like Securafone, parents are given the ability to set up virtual fences around their children and be alerted once they exit the area.
Mobiflock (available for Android, Nokia and Blackberry for USD 25 per year)
This application allows you as a parent to have full control of your child’s phone even from afar. You can block certain applications, disable the camera and even turn off the other functions of the smart phone at a fixed and predetermined time period. This way you’ll be able to prevent improper phone usage.
AT&T Family Map, Sprint Family Locator, Verizon Family Locator
(all available for cellular phones at USD 5- 10 per month)
Get a plan from your cellular phone service provider and you can use these applications to monitor your child’s movements and whereabouts even if his mobile phone is not a smart phone.
Relationship will never be smooth sailing all the time. Even siblings who grow up in the same environment and value orientation has differences, what more with you and your partner who have a totally different background or environment at home as you grew? Opinions on so many things can clash and as a result, hurtful words can be spoken at the heat of the moment. And when it did, it would be hard to undo and where would your relationship be? This might not be so apparent at the beginning but if you two keep on bickering without dealing with the root of the issue, you’ll find a great chasm between the two of you someday.
So before things can get worst and gap between the two of you gets too big to bridge, you both should learn to compromise. Here are 5 steps to help you both to meet in the middle, compromise, mend and keep your relationship intact.
1. Start a relationship that prioritizes an open communication. And if you were not able to establish it in the beginning, establish it now. Don’t wait to open things up with our partner. It is never good to assume what the other thinks and it works the other way around too – it is not good to have your feelings taken for granted. If your partner is so use of you keeping quiet, then it is time to speak up and tell your partner how you feel, what you think. As much as you don’t want confrontation, you will need to say your piece and let your partner know how you feel. Also, learn to listen to your partner as well. This will enable you both to open your channels of communication and start really talking with each other. When you open your communication with your partner, this is to allow each other to really talk and deal with the chasm that is starting to build up between the two of you.
2. Aim to forgive. Understand that when arguments happen, hurtful words will just flow. Often times, your partner does not really mean this. So if you work things out to really talk, be ready to forgive and forget the hurt of past arguments.
3. List down all the things you think both of you should compromise with. If you think your share in your household’s expenses is greater than with your partner, write it down; write the reason why you think it is so and provide a solution or a proposal. Write it not for your partner to read but for you so that you are reminded as to what you need to say with your partner.
4. Prepare for suggestion or opinion from your partner. If you don’t get one, ask one. Ensure that you are getting a feedback so that you will know that both of you are really agreeing on something. You have to make your partner understand how important it is for you to achieve compromises. In the process of doing so, make your partner feel that you are doing this because you want the relationship to last long because you see this relationship very important.
5. Achieve collaboration. Both of you must do his or her share of the agreement. If you have decided to split household expenses, for example, into 50-50 then give your 50 percent share on your own end. Don’t assume that that is the fifty percent. Ask your partner about the estimates and base your share there. And if expense goes beyond the estimates, be prepared to share another half of the cost – that is if this is what is agreed upon both of you. This is just an example. You can do this agreement between the two of you on everything that cause you two to argue. Just keep on with this and you both will have a lifelong relationship.
Majority of parents give allowances to their children. Because you cannot expect young children to handle money very well, you might not like to give them more than they need or handle. Still, giving your children allowance when they go to school is a good early practice for money discipline. But you want to be careful just how much to give so as not to overwhelm them and risk losing the opportunity to teach them the basics of money management.
Here are four ways parents can use to determine just how much money to set for children’s allowance:
1. Creating an allowance by age. There are two acceptable formulas for this, in which it suggest giving 50 cents per year of age of the child; another suggestion is a dollar per year of age. It may be wise to use the 50 cents formula to children below 10 years old and the one dollar formula to children over 10 years old.
2. Creating and allowance by budget. As much as you want to give your child an allowance, you need to also consider your budget. Finding out how much this budget is will help determine how much more you can set aside for the allowance. You need to consider the recurring weekly or monthly expenses as well as the non-recurring expenses that nevertheless will pop up sooner in your budget calendar.
3. Allow your child to suggest his or her allowance. Some parents might find this suggestion as a double-edged sword as children can’t really tell the difference yet between a “want” from a “need”. Likewise you can’t simply ask a child what he or she wants to buy on a regular basis because not everything they want to buy or have may be good for them at their young age. Instead, tell your child that they can make out a list of what they want to buy but like anything else in your home this list is subject for your approval. As said, don’t give too much that children can have everything they want – they need to learn later in life that they need to work hard for the things they want.
4. An allowance for each helpful chore. While this method may backfire, making the children think they can ask for money each time a new chore is assigned to them; simply let them know that as their parent you can choose not to give allowance for every chore done as chores at home must be shared by everyone. Letting them know that you give them allowance because you feel thankful for their help will make them think of chores as their part of “help” in the family instead of a “task” that needs to be done.
Personal outsourcing is not anymore new to many of us. Unlike before where people are used to having their offices with many employees working with them. This can be impossible for small businesses then. Nowadays, people opt to just work in the comfort of their homes and small businesses flourish with outsourcing their work.
And if you want to hire cheap virtual assistants, you can always find such in India. You can ensure yourself to work at home where it is more convenient and relaxing for you. Why? First, you don’t have to rent offices and you don’t have to buy office materials and supplies. Moreover, you don’t have to think about those electric bills.
And also, you don’t have to think about security guards, janitor, messenger or the whole office staff for that matter. No wonder outsourcing became so famous nowadays; just see the benefits you reap from it. You will be able to really save a lot of expensive an office entails. But, outsourcing staff in India does not come cheap all the time – not unless you don’t know these three tips:
Don’t rely on one service provider or virtual assistant. Trusting to one full-time employee is not a good idea. This is due to the fact that many virtual assistants are known of disappearing during the time when they are needed most. Thus, it is always wise if you have at least two or three assistants to help you with the daily tasks. You can just split their workload and schedule, like there’s someone to work on the first half of the day and the second for the second half. And if you think you can still work during the night time, you can also add another one.
Increase tasks gradually. We all know that outsourcing needs a trust factor. Thus, you must invest in people who are trustworthy, tested, and proven skillfull people. Hence, it is always a good idea that when you hire someone, start with a training period of two until three months training period. From there, you can observe what can he or she does or contribute to the company or business. There are freelance employees who accept the job then once given they tend to disappear and gave you lots of reasons. Try to give your new employee starting tasks and when he already perfected the task, you can add more tasks for the second week, and so and so forth until he’s done with the training. Make sure when the assistant is done with the training period he’s ready enough all the actual tasks that he will be doing daily.
Sort daily tasks based on importance. Take note of this; do not give tasks that need to be submitted ASAP. Give time allowance because there are factors that you must always consider like internet connection and electricity breakdown due to bad weather condition. These are factors to be considered because both of you are living in different part of the world. Time allowance is important because when worse comes to worst, you can still handle the situations with ease.